50 things we need to remind ourselves/ remember.

  1. It’s perfectly fine if you didn’t go to university.
  2. It’s also okay if you didn’t get good grades in school
  3.  Sometimes it’s WHO you know, not what you know that gets your foot in the door.
  4. If you break up with your long term partner when you’re in your late twenties it doesn’t mean you’ll be on the shelf forever. You’re hot. You’ve still got it.
  5. A lot more of us have no fucking idea what we’re doing. You’re not the only one.
  6. If you have no idea who you are, welcome to the club. A lot of us have been here for ages but have kept it on the down low.
  7. Being unmarried and childless does not mean you’re unsuccessful.
  8. If you haven’t found your dream career, relax. Your time will come.
  9. If you’re a lady who approaching 30 and still haven’t had kids, at least one person will tell you that your biological clock is ticking. And you’ll want to beat them with that fucking clock.
  10. Not everyone grows out of their weird little quirks (or in my case personality.) Weirdness comes into fashion. Your time will come, and you’ll be so authentic everyone will want to be like you.
  11. Your fashion will come into fashion
  12. Don’t let people belittle you because of your age.
  13. Or gender.
  14. Or your sexuality.
  15. Do that one thing you’ve been dreaming of but scares you. It will be the most fucking fantastic thing and it will do wonders for you.
  16. Your mental health matters.
  17. Spending time on making your self better, instead of travelling, does not mean you’ve been wasting your time.
  19. Don’t wait until things are at breaking point before you get help. It can make it so much harder to make yourself better.
  20. Your physical health is also important.
  21. Go spend time with that friend. You never know if they will still be here by the end of the year.
  22. You’re going to realise that when you thought you were fat you weren’t.
  23. And as you get older the weight will be easily put on and will be hard to loose (for a lot of us.)
  24. What is right for us will make some people unhappy. If they really love you, they will try to be happy for you and accept the situation.
  25. Some of your closest friends will change, and you will leave them behind.
  26. You might fall in love with someone who is completely different from anyone you’ve ever dated and it will be magical AF.
  27. It’s never too late to travel.
  28. Don’t stay in a relationship you’re unhappy in. It’s never too late to go, and life is too short to spend it miserable.
  29. Don’t let your pain take away your kindness and your sensitivity.
  30. But loss and pain of a friend or family member can change your outlook on things, and make you realise the small stuff really doesn’t matter.
  31. Not everyone you meet will like you. And that’s fine.
  32. Don’t take crap for and from anyone.
  33. Don’t make major changes to yourself just to make someone happy. Fuck that.
  34. You are always stronger than you realise.
  35. Learn to love yourself
  36. Being selfish for your own being is being selfless to yourself. You have to put yourself more often than you do.
  37. Try not to say things to yourself that you wouldn’t say to someone you love.
  38. Try not to say things about strangers or to strangers that you wouldn’t say to the people you love.
  39. Not everyone is as happy as they make out on social media.
  40. Take a break from the internet every now and then. Especially when your on holiday.
  41. The amount of followers you have on social media does not dictate your worth, your beauty and who you are as a person.
  42. Neither does your weight.
  43. Seriously, if weighing yourself makes you sad, bin the bloody thing.
  44. Give that random person that compliment you was thinking. You never know, they might of just needed to hear it.
  45. If your friends make you feel sad/ embarrassed for being you, dump them.
  46. Friendship break ups exist and they are just as sad as relationship break ups.
  47. Enjoy yourself at every opportunity.
  48. Life is too short to spend it miserable
  49. Take photos of those happy times.
  50. Live a happy and memorable life.

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